I love people-watching. Have you ever sat at the airport and
just observe the people passing by. It is so interesting and entertaining. I
also love reading biographies and fiction stories about communities and all the
different kinds of people that make up a town.
It is often the differences in people, the quirks, that make the most
interesting stories.
Have you ever read
the Mitford Series? Or watched shows like Andy Griffith, The Gilmore Girls, or
Mary Tyler Moore? We wouldn’t watch it without all the different
personalities involved. It would be soooooo boring. I remind myself of this
whenever I am tempted to get annoyed at someone. I think, “This is what makes a
good novel or TV show. It is what keeps life interesting.” You should try it.
It will give you a new perspective.
Well, I don’t need a TV show or a book to entertain me,
because I have so many interesting and great people involved in my life. I want
to share their life stories with you, because I have learned so much from these
people in my life. They have inspired, encouraged, challenged, delighted, and
comforted me. (I am sure they've done so many other great things as well, but I can’t think of
anymore adjectives right now.)
Oh, boy. I hope that
it doesn’t sound like I am calling my friends quirky or annoying. Please don’t
get me wrong! On the contrary, these people have put up with my idiosyncrasies and have helped me grow. Well, at the least they have watched me grow old if
nothing else.
I would like you to meet my friend Sharla. I have known her
since January 1987, which makes it almost 28 years now. I met Sharla during our
1 year stay in Pensacola, Florida. I was pregnant with my 2nd son,
Jed, and she had just had her 4th child, Molly. Tom and Sharla had a homeless and military ministry
that they ran out of their home, which they paid for out of their own pocket.
Everything they had went into their efforts of sharing the good news of the
gospel of Christ to the world around them. Maybe some other time I will write
about this period of our lives, but for now this about Sharla.
If there is ever a person you would want on your team, it
would be Sharla. Believe me, she should be one of your first picks. But
remember that I saw her first, so please don’t take her from me! Truly, I don’t know what I would do without
her. I guess we all just need to be on the same
team!
Don’t let Sharla’s small size fool you. She is a fireball. Really!
The creative juices that flow out of that woman are nothing short of Niagra
Falls.
When I first came to Virginia I decided that I was interested
in quilting, and I also wanted to connect with people in the community. I
convinced Sharla to go to a quilting guild meeting. I dabbled in quilting for a
bit, and then decided I was too busy with church and my little people. I didn’t
need another creative outlet, but not Sharla. That woman not only learned to
hand-quilt during her busy life schedule, but went on the road with quilting
shows, taught classes, and hand-dyed her own fabric to make beautiful works of
art. She left me behind in the dust!
This is just Sharla’s way. All in. Full intensity. Often no
sleep required. Truly inspiring. That's why I say that if there was ever a time you had to pick people to be
on your team, she should be one of your first picks.
Sharla has cooked thousands of meals for the people that they
have invited into their home. Every Sunday, for years, Sharla and Tom would
cook dinner and invite military people over to join them in a Sunday meal and
volleyball. Thanksgiving was a huge outreach time. For several years we even
helped them rent a Recreational Center in Norfolk on Thanksgiving, because
there were so many people. There was
food, games, and always an invitation to know more about our best friend, Jesus
Christ. The military ministry has changed, but Tom and Sharla’s hearts haven’t
wavered.
Sharla has been, and is still, instrumental in helping with
Avalon’s women’s Bible study and other events. She also has written and
directed many of our Christmas plays and Vacation Bible School events. She has
taught debate at a homeschool class. She also teaches sewing and quilting to
our ladies.
Well, I could go on and on, but, out of all the many things I
admire about Sharla, I want to share with you two specific aspects of her life that mean something special to me. First,
and on the playful side of life’s happenings, is the creation of her tiny
house, which I totally LOVE! And second, something about her journey to faith
during which her first husband, David, was murdered. Truly inspiring.
So hope you will come back for more of the story --~Sharla’s
Tiny House~